I realized the other day that at the end of August it will be one year since I published Being Human. That made me giddy. And a bit blown away. One year! It honestly doesn't feel that long. Feels like yesterday. Or maybe last week. Naturally, my mind started wondering how to celebrate, but that's for when the date is closer.

For now, I want to talk about my book, the sales and my struggle to market.

I am anti-social. No denying that. I complain on Twitter and Facebook about having to be social. Sometimes I get really stubborn about my anti-socialness and refuse to engage new people. I guess you could say I embrace my anti-socialness. There's a problem with that though: Anti-social is bad for my book.
You may have heard it on other blogs, but word of mouth is king. People buy books that are talked about. But how do those books get talked about in the first place? The author talking, and surprise, surprise, I don't talk about my book. The other week I went to my cousin's wedding. My first thought: Oh no, someone is going to ask me how my book is doing. Please, no one ask me about my book! Don't make me talk about my book!

Don't get me wrong, I do sell copies of Being Human. Every month I have a handful of sales, but those sales would probably be better if I grew a pair and started willingly saying, "You like to read? I wrote a book and it's called..." I think it's safe to say I've hawked my friends books way more than mine. My two besties get my writer friends' books for Christmas. I talk about friends' books that will be released all the time. There's the proof that word of mouth works and I see it work wonders with other writers I follow on twitter.

Why can't I do spread the word about my own book? Did you miss the part of this post where I said I'm anti-social? I will go kicking and screaming to any social get together. The release party my besties threw for Being Human, I was hesitant to go. Yup, my own book party and I wanted to bow out.

So as one year being published comes up, my thoughts are on finding ways to spread the word about my book. What? I should work on being social too? Awwww, do I have to? That requires talking to people and possibly being nice to them? That's ten times harder than writing a book! ;)
 


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06/21/2012 3:59pm

Hi Patricia! I totally understand this. I don't look at it as being "anti-social", but more like "I haven't embraced the fact that I am a writer and I have written a book" kind of thing. And you're not alone. We all get a little bit shy or insecure about something as personal as writing.

Anyway, I have a blog award for you. :)

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06/21/2012 11:05pm

Aww thanks. I'll take a look tomorrow when I'm not tired from entertaining my 6 yr old nephew. (My next blog post should be How do Moms do it?? lol)

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06/23/2012 2:26pm

--Here's my question: DO YOU BELIEVE IN YOUR BOOK?

If so, get your ass out there!!

Lisa Genova, who wrote Still Alice, sold her book from the trunk of her car. I asked her, "Why did you do that?" & she said, "Because I believed in my book. It had to be read!!!"

You. Can. Do. It. Too. <3 Great Post. Good Luck!

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06/23/2012 6:24pm

Thanks for the encouragement. There might be a blog post in this too!

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06/26/2012 8:48am

Hi Patricia, hows it going over there? I must say the description of yourself sounds very much like me! I do exactly the same things. I went that one step further only yesterday - I created a new blog title for my page and actually attached the word 'writer' to the title, a big first step in the process of going forever forward!

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06/26/2012 12:18pm

Woohoo! Congrats on that step forward. *\o/*

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06/27/2012 3:22pm

I'm with you. I'm shy, too. Being thrust into the social media scene hasn't been easy. And I'm not even published yet! LOL

I'm coming over from Alex's IWSG. (I'm visiting early since there are so many on the list now.) Nice to meet you. :)

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06/28/2012 12:01pm

Thanks for stopping by and reminding me about IWSG. I always forget. ^^;;

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08/13/2012 9:11am

It was nice that you have posted after such a long time and people like me where waiting for your post felt happy. Keeping posting new interesting post.

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